“This is why Jung observed that the greatest burden the child must bear is the unlived life of the parent.”
— James Hollis (Hauntings: Dispelling the Ghosts Who Run Our Lives)
Every human being carries the scars of their lineage. These wounds are not only from our mother and father for they reach far deeper…etched into us through epigenetics, through generations of pain, loss, and unfinished lives. The unlived lives of our ancestors often press upon us in ways we cannot name, shaping our path before we have even taken our first breath.
Let this be clear: this is not a post to shame parents. Far from it. To truly understand ourselves, we must also understand them; not only their actions, but the wounds that shaped those actions. As Niles Crane once quipped in the television show, Frasier: “…I am a Jungian. And with that, there will be no blaming mother today! Let’s get better!” And so, with that spirit, let us turn to the myth of Hercules: a story that arguably reflects wounds many men carry, though its themes can extend to women as well.
We are not talking about the Disney version, by the way (though it also contains fascinating narrative folds tied to the hero’s journey and psychic integration). Here, we will explore the myth of the man: how he came to be, and the psychological nuance woven into his so-called “hero’s journey.”
The Birth of a Wound
Hercules (known to the Greeks as Heracles), was the son of Zeus, king of the gods, and the mortal woman, Alcmene. His very existence was born of betrayal: Zeus deceived Alcmene while disguised as her husband…you can let your imagination take it from there. When Hera, Zeus’s wife, discovered the affair, her rage turned not towards her husband, but towards the child that was conceived from the ruse. From the moment Hercules drew breath, he was marked by her wrath.
Hera sent serpents to kill him in his crib, but he strangled them with his bare hands. Leonard Shlain, in the books The Alphabet Versus the Goddess and Sex, Time, and Power, notes that the serpent is one of humanity’s oldest symbols of the feminine principle. In this light, Hera’s attack is more than divine jealousy – it is the wounded feminine turned against the masculine child, punishing him for the father’s violation.
Zeus, though powerful, played no real role in raising Hercules. He appeared only in moments of direct danger, otherwise leaving him unprotected against Hera’s rage. This is the archetype of the absent or disengaged father…one who contributes to the wound yet cannot face his own pain, and so offers nothing toward a repair for his son (or daughter).
Alcmene, meanwhile, raised Hercules with her mortal husband, Amphitryon. However, here we must ask what it means to mother a child who is the living reminder of an immense betrayal. Even if she never consciously admitted it, Hercules’ demi-god status (his extraordinary strength and nature) would have been a constant reminder of the night she was cheated. This could foster unconscious detachment, mistrust, or a quiet sense of “I wish you were different.” Her love, however real, may have been tinged with the ambivalence of one who has been violated and forced to carry the evidence of it into daily life.
Thus, Hercules was born into a psychic war between an absent father, a hostile stepmother-goddess, and a biological mother who, despite care, could never fully separate her son from the circumstances of his conception. Not to mention that the fact that Amphitryon was probably pretty pissed himself and likely also harbored some resentment. This is precisely what Carl Jung warned of when he said the greatest “sin” a parent can commit is to thrust their unlived life upon their child. Hercules’ life was never entirely his own.
The Madness and the Sentence
As a young man, Hercules married Megara and had children. Hera struck again – as an unresolved mother complex will – but this time. sending a madness upon him so deep that he murdered them all with his own hands. In that moment, Hercules fulfilled the dark inheritance of his lineage. Zeus had modeled the violation of the feminine, and Hera’s wrath ensured he would fulfill it. In that moment, he became the living embodiment of the phrase so often hurled from mother to son: “You are just like your father.” The sacred union of masculinity and femininity was destroyed, and what Zeus had done through betrayal, Hercules repeated in blood. When the fog lifted, he was consumed by horror.
Seeking atonement, Hercules went to the Oracle of Delphi, who commanded him to serve King Eurystheus for twelve years and complete twelve impossible labors. This detail is of the utmost importance: Hercules did not sink into shame. He chose, with full awareness, to hurl himself into the abyss of inner atonement. History remembers his labors as feats of glory. In truth, they were an initiation through hell itself: an impossible individuation process requiring him to confront, again and again, the psychic inheritances of his lineage. An initiation that most of us mortals live through unconsciously, tossed by the chaotic waves of fate, never realizing our powers to overcome. Hercules, unlike us, was compelled to face his trials…and in doing so, revealed what becomes possible when the war is met with full awareness.
“The hero in each of us is required to answer the call of individuation. We must turn away from the cacophony of the outer world to hear the inner voice. When we can dare to live its promptings, then we achieve personhood.”
— James Hollis (The Middle Passage: From Misery to Meaning in Midlife)
The Labors as Steps Toward Wholeness
From the moment Hercules is born, he is marked by the war between his parents…not in the literal sense, but in the archetypal one. Zeus, the father, violates the feminine repeatedly, wounding both Alcmene and Hera. However, it is the [step]mother Hera, that turns her rage toward the child. Projecting her pain onto Hercules that she cannot express towards its true source.
This is the great tragedy Jung warned of: the unlived lives of the parents being forced upon the child. Hercules’ life was shaped by a father who modeled domination without reverence, and a mother who embodied love tangled with punishment.
The twelve labors Hercules needed to conquer were not simply feats of strength. They were the steps of an individuation path carved through hell itself. An initiation forced upon him to break the complexes inherited from both mother and father.
1. Slay the Nemean Lion – Breaking the Father’s Armor
The lion’s invulnerable hide mirrors the impenetrable authority of the omnipotent father: the facade of strength that hides fear and moral weakness. Hercules cannot kill it with external weapons; he must confront it directly, dismantling the image of invulnerability he inherited from Zeus.
2. Kill the Lernaean Hydra – The Wounded Feminine
The serpent as feminine principle, wounded and enraged, attacks endlessly. The serpent motif again echoing Shlain’s notion of the serpent as the feminine principle. Cutting at the heads only multiplies the problem…as with the mother complex, surface fixes fail. Only by searing the root does he address the wound at its source.
3. Capture the Ceryneian Hind – Approaching the Feminine Without Violence
For perhaps the first time, Hercules must take without destroying. Capturing Artemis’s sacred deer becomes a lesson in reverence, not conquest – a counterpoint to the father’s violation of the feminine…to approach the feminine without violating it.
4. Capture the Erymanthian Boar – Containing the Father’s Rage
The boar’s wild fury mirrors the destructive masculine impulse…one inherited from Zeus. Capturing it alive forces Hercules to hold power without losing control: a discipline neither parent modeled. To contain aggression rather than be consumed by it.
5. Clean the Augean Stables – Cleansing Generational Filth
The stables, reeking from years of trauma and neglect, hold the psychic refuse of his lineage: generations of built-up shadow material, unacknowledged pain, and family secrets. Hercules cleans it not through brute force, but by redirecting deeper currents (the unconscious itself) to wash away what the ego alone cannot.
6. Slay the Stymphalian Birds – Dispelling Inherited Voices
The man-eating birds with bronze beaks are the internalized judgments and corrosive beliefs of his upbringing. Hercules drives them away not by killing each one, but by breaking their spell with disruptive force. Shaking loose the mental cage and strong-hold through sudden, decisive action.
7. Capture the Cretan Bull – Mastering Raw Masculine Energy
The bull embodies untamed masculine potency (the very energy Zeus embraces that wounded Hera and Alcmene). To master it without killing it is to reclaim masculine vitality without repeating the father’s harm to the feminine.
8. Tame the Mares of Diomedes – Transforming Consuming Desire
These man-eating horses are eros corrupted; love turned predatory. In mythic symbolism, horses often embody the life force due to their vitality, power, and unrestrained instinct. Diomedes are corrupt of this symbolism: consuming life instead of carrying it forward. Thus, by taming them, Hercules learns that desire can be redirected into life-giving power rather than devouring others.
9. Obtaining the Belt of Hippolyta – Meeting the Warrior Feminine as Equal
Hercules faces Hippolyta, a queen who embodies strength and autonomy; he is facing the warrior feminine as an equal. This labor asks him to meet the feminine as a force to respect and engage with, not subdue. This is an act his father never modeled.
10. Steal the Cattle of Geryon – Reclaiming Fragmented Selfhood
Geryon’s three bodies suggest a self split into parts by trauma. The cattle are the symbols of vitality and sustenance and are the life energy scattered across these fragments. Hercules’ task is to unify what has been divided. Thus, this is a retrieval of scattered vitality.
11. Golden Apples of the Hesperides – Returning to the Source of the Wound
Guarded by nymphs and a serpent, the apples take him back to the archetypal feminine wound — Hera’s wrath, the serpent’s presence; this circles us back to the primal wound of the feminine. But now, Hercules approaches with strategy and earned wisdom, not raw force.
12. Capture Cerberus from the Underworld – The Final Descent
This is the final boss. To face the three-headed hound is to confront death, shadow, and the threshold between life and the unconscious. Hercules returns alive, carrying Cerberus not as a trophy, but as living proof that he has entered the deepest darkness (the hell forged by his parents’ wounds) and emerged from the underworld of his own psyche. It is the closest to wholeness we ever see him.
“Fear of our own depths is the enemy.”
— James Hollis (The Middle Passage: From Misery to Meaning in Midlife)
From Inherited Pain to Individuation
The labors of Hercules are often told as a celebration of strength, but the deeper truth is that they are about reclaiming the soul from the complexes of one’s lineage. Hera’s wrath, Zeus’s absence, and Alcmene’s ambivalence are not obstacles to be defeated but wounds to be understood and transformed. Wounds to not be erased but integrated.
Hercules does not erase his origins. He does not undo the betrayal of his conception, the rage of the feminine, or the destruction he himself enacted under madness. What he does is confront the monsters – both divine and internal – that these wounds birthed.
In this story, the myth speaks to every human being. We all walk through hell in our own way. We all face the choice of whether to remain trapped in the pain handed down to us or to undertake the long, arduous work of becoming whole. To integrate the unconscious and the plethora of complexes we possess, into conscious awareness.
As Jung wrote, “What we do not make conscious appears in our lives as fate.” Hercules’ fate was sealed at birth, but his labors show the path to transforming that fate into something far more. To reiterate, not by bypassing the wound, but by descending into it.
Closing Reflections
Hercules’ labors are not just ancient feats or stories to entertain. They are a mirror. Every one of us is handed wounds that are not our own but they eventually transform into our own. Thus, every one of us must decide whether we will be ruled by them or walk into the underworld to face them…and, in time, walk confidently and lovingly with them. His story is not about erasing the past or burning with the wrath of victimhood and vengeance. It is rather a tale about reclaiming the Self from the depths of the abyss.
So, I will leave you with this dear reader: What monsters have you inherited? What serpents still guard the treasures of your own soul? And will you, when the time comes, descend to meet them?
“The one thing parents can do for their children is live their lives as fully as they can, for this will open the children’s imagination, grant permission to them to have their own journey, and open the doors of possibility for them.”
— James Hollis (Living an Examined Life: Wisdom for the Second Half of the Journey)
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I was looking for a Jungian take on this myth and I found something more profound and incredible. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much for your beautiful words – I sincerely appreciate you and am so glad this piece found its way to you.